168. Study Reveals The 5 'Biggies' Girl Look For When Dating

Are you ready to discover the true secrets of what most really matters to women when they're dating? A new study—covered by relationship coaches and psychology researchers—lays bare the five essential qualities that always come across. Spoiler alert: these aren't souped-up motors or six-packs—they are deeper, more genuine, and much more important! 💡

💞 1. Emotional Intelligence

Women are more and more drawn to men who can empathize and handle emotions—both their own and other individuals'. This entails:

• 🎧 Active listening
• 💓 Attuning to feelings, not just reacting to them
• 🗣️ Speaking truthfully and genuinely

When you're in tune with feelings—yours and hers—you build real trust and intimacy. 😊

💪 2. Confidence (Not Cockiness)

Self-confidence is attractive to all people—but there's a fine line between confidence and cockiness.

What really works?

• 🌟 Standing tall as yourself
• 💬 Knowing your values and living by them
• 📸 Being yourself—whether on a date or in your profile picture—

That quiet confidence whispers, "I love me, and I love you," and that attracts people. 😉

🌷 3. Kindness & Empathy

Chivalry is not dead! Small gestures like holding the door, being thankful, or being considerate mean a lot.

Showing everyday kindness shows your emotional warmth and how you'd treat a partner—making these traits big winners in any relationship. 💐

😂 4. Sense of Humor

The optimum type of glue is relationship glue. Based on the study, women love men who:

• 😄 Can laugh at themselves and at life
• 😌 Don't take life so seriously
• 😄Spread happiness and positiveness even into little things

A humorous guy who can make her day? That's gold. ✨

🌍 5. Shared Values & Goals

And finally, one of the largest "biggies": alignment in life purpose. A woman wants to feel in sync with her partner on issues like:

• 🧭 Career aspirations
• ✈️ Family or travel plans
• 💖 Relationship values

This isn't asking you to agree on everything—but that you both have similar values so the relationship has a strong foundation for long-term growth. 🌱

💡 So—How Can You Use This on Milana.Date?

📸 Step 1: Update your profile

• 🧠 Highlight times when you’ve shown empathy or emotional awareness
• 😎 Include organic, confident, kind, humorous snapshots of your personality
• 💬 Talk about what matters most to you—whether that’s travel dreams, family bonds, or purposeful work

💬 Step 2: Date with intention

Carry forward those same qualities on your dates:

• 🗨️ Ask meaningful questions, listen closely
• 💞 Be open about your values and what’s important to you
• 😄 Laugh freely, be warm, and enjoy her presence

❤️ Step 3: Create deeper connection

Make growth deliberate:

• 🔄 Be consistent—kindness is not a one-time deal
• 🗣️ Speak clearly and conscientiously
• 🤝 Check in on shared aspirations and listen to hers, as well

✨ Final Thoughts

Finding love is not about perfect appearances—it's about being genuine, connected, and kind. By showcasing emotional intelligence, confidence, kindness, humor, and values in common, you won't just get her notice—you'll capture her heart. 💘

Ready to make your profile and bring genuine, authentic connection to the platform? Get started today.

And don't forget—love shows up when you show up as your best you, with a smile 😊

Wishing you joy, courage, and a whole lot of love—

The Milana.Date Team 💕💌

Updated on: 01/07/2025