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212. Thinking What to Discuss First? Let’s Start with Hobbies and Movies

Starting a conversation with someone new can feel exciting… and a little intimidating. Whether you’ve just matched on Milana.Date or met someone in person, knowing what to talk about first can set the tone for the whole interaction.

One of the easiest and most natural ways to connect is by discussing hobbies and movies. These topics are fun, non-controversial, and help you quickly discover shared interests.

Why Start with Hobbies?

Hobbies reveal a lot about a person’s lifestyle, passions, and values. Talking about what you both enjoy doing in your free time creates instant common ground.

Some great hobby-related questions include:

“What’s your favorite way to spend a Saturday?”
“Have you picked up any new hobbies recently?”
“If you had unlimited free time, what would you do more often?”

You might discover shared interests—like hiking, painting, cooking, or gaming—which can naturally lead to planning your first date.

Movies: A Conversation Goldmine

Movies aren’t just entertainment—they’re a glimpse into someone’s personality. Comedy lovers might have a playful side, while fans of thrillers may enjoy excitement and mystery.

You could ask:

“What’s the last movie that really made you laugh?”
“Do you prefer watching at the cinema or at home?”
“If we had a movie night, what would you choose?”

This topic can easily lead to deeper conversations about favorite genres, actors, and even shared viewing experiences.

The Magic of Combining the Two

By blending hobbies and movies in conversation, you get a well-rounded sense of someone’s tastes and lifestyle. For example, if someone enjoys cooking and watching travel documentaries, that might hint they’re adventurous and curious about the world.

Pro Tip for Online Dating Conversations

On Milana.Date, starting with light topics like hobbies and movies is the perfect way to make the first messages fun and pressure-free. Keep your tone curious and positive, and always share a little about yourself too—it makes the conversation feel natural instead of like an interview.

This image is a flat-style digital illustration with a warm peach background. In the foreground, there’s a man on the left wearing an orange long-sleeved shirt, holding a video game controller in his hands. A woman on the right is wearing a blue short-sleeved shirt and holding an open book.

Updated on: 11/08/2025

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